• Éadaoin Fitzmaurice

Don't Stay With The Sh*t Head - There's SO Much Better Out There

It's true how the saying goes - you've got to kiss a LOT of frogs before you find your prince/princess.


It's a rare occasion that you meet someone who's never had a bad fling or relationship and been left hurt, damaged and untrusting afterwards.


It was only a week or so ago however, when I told a friend over a few drinks the shit that I put up with in a past relationship that I realised how awful it was. Looking back, I was an absolute dope for ever associating myself with someone like that, especially when I knew deep down it was toxic.


I realised I was in a relationship with a sh*thead.


(Fortunately, he was never physically abusive, he was just a crap person.)


So here is my wish for those reading this who can relate - get away from that situation.


"Love" or lust makes us do crazy things, we seem to find ourselves doing loops and ending up back where we started, feeling pissed off and unfulfilled.


For yourself - do what's best for your needs.


Don't let anyone manipulate you and waste your time. You're so much better than that. Once you're out of that situation you'll realise how amazing real human connection can be.


Take time to figure yourself out, what do you want, who do you want to be with?


You'll get there.


Head up!


And trust me, stay away from that sh*thead!